Being Only Dorks With Guys – Why You Are Alone
Every man who has been in a relationship for any length of time will tell you they have “only dudes” at the end of the day. Even if they do not mean that literally, it is a truth of the universe that the majority of men will end up alone by their thirties or beyond. In many cases, even the woman is only there because they are married.
In reality, most of the time, a guy is not a “dude”. He is a woman who is being led down a path. It may not be an easy path, but at least you have that option if you have children, a partner, and you want to go out as a couple. If you don’t have these things, you are probably more than just the occasional “dude” who has no idea where to go with his life.
It may be difficult for some guys to admit this, but they are not always the smartest people out there. This doesn’t mean that they are not good with women. It means that they may be acting in a way they know nothing about. They may not know how to act when a girl tells them something is wrong. They may not know how to tell a girl that she looks nice. And worst of all, they might think they know what they are doing when they are actually doing something very wrong.
Guys are naturally lazy. There is nothing quite like a night of dancing with your friends to make you feel great. But it is also very possible to be doing the same thing, watching television or playing video games. This can be a good thing, but it is also a complete waste of time when the only person you are hanging around with is a guy who isn’t much more than a friend. Guys do not learn much from a conversation that does not include them. What happens when you have a guy around is a series of one-way conversations in which you try to persuade him into taking action. You are constantly reminding him that you care about him, but he is not listening.
Guys are naturally shy, and they rarely talk to anyone who isn’t interested in them. They will talk to a few guys in a bar, but that is about the limit of their social circle. And if they do, they are only there to hang out with them. and not to date them. They don’t talk to the ones that they see at the bar because there is no point.
When you have a whole new guy, you want to help him discover himself. and you want to bring his interests and hobbies to the table. But what you will find is that you have a whole new guy and a whole new man to deal with.