One of the most common issues that men usually encounter when flirting with women is that they don’t know how to do it. Persuading someone to have sex with you is a skill that needs to honed.
The word “persuasion” is often times misinterpreted as an act of manipulation or hypnotism. Persuasions cannot force someone to do things against their will. It is just an act of convincing people to do something or approve of something.
Tips to Persuade Women to Have Sex
Women usually go for men who have total confidence about themselves. While women standards can be hard to define, but for those who are able to convince or seduce them always win the prize. So, how do you go for it? Women likes men who are passionate, exciting, skilled, attentive, and respectful. Looks can get you somewhere but without it, women will have to choose your traits over your appearance. If a woman says, she likes “bad boys”, she is probably looking for someone who is exciting and a bit of a recklessness. As a man, you don’t have to go overboard and cross the actual asshole territory. But instead, be the man that would go for something exciting and not be boring. Also, if a woman says she likes men who are respectful and chivalrous, you don’t have to get straight A’s or actually showing up as a knight in shining armor. She probably meant someone that is passionate, attentive, and willing to listen. And of course, having a big sword and nice horse is a welcome addition.
Always Be Yourself
When flirting with women, don’t pretend to be someone you’re not. Find a quality within you that is genuine and let them be the judge of that. Because, if you’re trying to project an image contrary to your character, sooner or later, things will stumble upon you and you’ll find yourself disappointed when she finds out. Figure out yourself. Are you a person that constantly takes risk? Are you a person that is funny, caring, and easy to deal with? Do you find pleasure in music or are you a food aficionado? If you know what your qualities are, then it would be easier for you to strike a conversation with her. Make this an opportunity to share yourself and be true to who you are.
Socialize More Often
It is important to build your network and that is through socializing. If you happen to have female friends who have boyfriends, those friends will be able to help you out getting a girlfriend. As long as you don’t act like a total dickhead, they will think that you’re a cool guy and nice to be around with. Whenever you’re in a party, always try to introduce yourself. Try to look around and see if there’s anyone that needs a bit of company. Just don’t overdo it as you may end up looking like a creep or a stalker. Be wholesome. When a woman sees you having good time with other women, they will find you desirable or intriguing. This could be your ticket to impress someone or persuade them into having sex with you.